Mourning is often described as outward and inward expression of grief over a death. Jesus does not say much about mourning except the promises of eternal life which should be our comfort. The Apostle Paul felt the same way when he said we do not weep as those without hope. It was the custom in the Bible to mourn for a period of time, wearing special clothing and even as far as putting ashes on heads and beating of the chest. In Biblical times there were professional mourners who were invited to funerals.
However, mourning can result from other things other than a death, Some other calamity such a loss of a limb, a divorce, a pet, wayward children, a home, good health or the end of long time friendships can have devasting consequences. Some of these can be more difficult to deal with than an actual death because they continue to be among the living. When someone dies, closure is extremely important and can be achieved if the right steps are taken. Other calamities may require professional help to deal with the stresses that accompany those other types of losses. Sleeplessness, anxiety, weight shifts, lack of motivation, even fear can be debilitating. These are also signs of depression, but mourning is about loss. Dealing with loss can and often does lead to depression
“Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down (depression), but a good word cheers it up.” Proverbs 12:25 The answer of course is hope even in the face hopelessness.
Our hope is in the Lord. Deuteronomy 33:27 – “The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms.” Psalm 27:14 – “Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and He shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD.” Romans 15:13 – “”May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit Philippians 4:6-7 – Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” It is known fact that Abraham Lincoln turned to scripture to help him in his mourning and in his depression. In God we find strength to carry on.
Be Encouraged,
Ray
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